November 30, 2015

Goodbye Tonsils!

After several bouts of strep over the last few months, we finally made the decision that it was time for Emily's tonsils to go!  I was super hesitant leading up to the surgery, especially after going to the pre-op appointment.  We were told Emily would be staying overnight in the hospital and that it would be about a 2 week recovery.  I'm not sure what I was expecting, but that was definitely more than I had prepared myself for.  I just kept hoping that we were making the right decision, especially when the couple of days leading up to the surgery Em started expressing some fear about it all.

We arrived at the hospital at 9:00 Friday morning and spent 2 very long hours waiting for her turn.  She took some medicine that helped calm any anxiety and she actually waved at us as she was being wheeled back.  That definitely helped my nerves knowing she wasn't scared going back.  We moved to the waiting room and only about 20-30 minutes later the Dr. came in to tell us Em was all done.  She said she could definitely tell that her tonsils had been through a lot and even though we hadn't discussed it, she ended up taking the adenoids as well.   I guess they were pretty large, so she thought it was best to deal with them now instead of later.  We stayed in the waiting room for just a few minutes longer waiting for Em to wake up.  The hardest part of the day came next.  We got to go in to recovery to see her and she was just in tears and so out of it!  I'm not sure if she was in pain or just confused on where she was or what, but it was so hard for me to see her like this!  I was in tears sitting with her and again wondering if we made the right choice!  About 30 minutes later and 2 doses of morphine, Em finally calmed down and she got moved into a regular room.  We settled in for the day not really knowing what to expect.
Waiting to go to pre-op.  Mommy was putting on a brave face!

Waiting for her turn to go back into surgery.  The waiting was tough!


Right after she got moved to her room.  She was not feeling well.  :(
Emily was pretty tired from all the anesthesia, so she slept on and off most of the day.  Unfortunately for her, the anesthesia and/or morphine did not sit well with her.  She ended up throwing up twice.  . .even hours after the surgery.  I just couldn't wait for all the meds they had given her to be out of her system!  Late afternoon she finally decided to try some of the jello, pudding and popsicles that were offered to her.  However, she didn't have much of an appetite until dinner when she got a big bowl of mac and cheese!  Em was super lucky in that she had lots of visitors come up to see her.  Papa Mike, Mimi and Papa, Uncle Kevin, Aunt Julie, Lauren and Natty and of course Evan, all came up to see her.  I could tell that the visitors definitely helped boost her spirits and made her feel very special!  She even got serenaded by one of the volunteer musicians that works at the hospital and was excited to have a kid to play for (it's a small hospital that doesn't usually have many peds patients).

She finally perked up that night and got an appetite.

She loved the balloon Evan brought her.
I stayed the night with her.  Neither one of us slept well.  We were both ready for to go home by Saturday morning.  Luckily, she was released around 11:00 and we were all home.  She napped a bit on Saturday and we've taken it easy ever since then.  For the most part she has done well.  We've been keeping her on pain meds around the clock and are trying to get her to drink a ton.  The drinking is the hardest part.  She doesn't drink a lot to begin with, so to get her to drink a glass an hour is proving to be nearly impossible! She went back to school today, but will have to sit out of PE the whole week.  Her ears are starting to bother her now.  It's something we were told could hurt as a result of the tonsillectomy.  Poor girl!  I just hate seeing her like this.  At the 2 week mark, she'll get to go back to regular food.  I can't wait for everything to just be back to normal and I know she feels the same way!
Shawn and Evan had boys night at home.

While we had a Mommy/Daughter sleepover at the hospital.  She insisted I sleep in the bed with her all night.  

We were both so happy to be home and have showers!  We look like we had a rough night!

Emily's Turkey Tribute

The Thursday before Thanksgiving, Emily participated in the Kindergarten Thanksgiving program. It was so cute!  The 4 kindergarten classes sang lots of turkey songs that they had been practicing for the last several weeks.  All the kids were dressed up as either Indians or Pilgrims.  Emily was super excited because she was chosen to be a pilgrim which meant she got a speaking role.  She practiced her line for days and said it perfectly when it was her turn.
Miss Surplus' class




Not the best pics. . I was trying to zoom in a bunch on my phone.

The Doodlebugs End of Season Party

Emily's soccer season wrapped up mid-November and we celebrated with a team party at Bahama Bucks.  The girls had a great season!  They certainly didn't win every game, but you could definitely tell how much they all had improved from the beginning of the season to the end.  All of the girls on Em's team are so sweet and it was so much fun meeting new friends, many that live right in our neighborhood and go to Kindergarten with Emily.  Emily had so much fun that we decided to sign her back up for the spring season.  I can't wait for the new season to start. .although I'm fine with waiting until it warms up a bit.




Getting her trophy from Coach Trina.

Haleigh, Basma, Hannah, Addison, Emily, Aurelia and Fiona.


Eczema Sucks!

I don't write a ton about Em's eczema on my blog because it's way more fun to write about the good things, but there's several things I want to write down so I remember for the future.  Because even though we've gotten over this hurdle, I know eczema is a constant battle.

Up until August of this year, Em's eczema has been kept under control for the most part.  She would have flareups here and there (mainly on her hands and feet), but nothing we couldn't take care of within a few days.  Starting in August, Emily was diagnosed with strep.  Along with it, like any infection, her eczema flared up.  Usually as the antibiotics are working to fight the infection,  the eczema usually gets better.  But this time, that wasn't the case.  It just seemed to be getting worse and worse and showing up in places she'd never had it before.  Poor Em just couldn't catch a break, as soon as the strep would go away, it would be back.  With each new infection, the eczema just kept getting worse and worse.  I feel like we were at the pediatrician weekly for months.  Since her eczema was so bad and she was itching constantly she kept developing staph infections on her skin as well.  So that was a whole other beast we had to fight.  The dr. gave her an antibiotic to try to fight the strep and the staph and that caused an allergic reaction.  By then her skin had just had enough and no matter what we tried, it just kept getting worse.  For about a week, she was covered head to toe in a raised, itchy, red rash.  Our pediatrician had no idea what was causing it. . the strep, the antibiotic, the eczema?  It was beyond frustrating to me!!  All I wanted to do was help my child and yet if the dr. didn't know the cause, how the heck was I supposed to know.  I literally felt helpless.  By now, Emily had missed so many days of school because of strep and then allergic reactions.  I spent so much time on the internet trying to find new things to try to help her.  Nothing seemed to work for her.  Every morning and night I was spending around 15 minutes slathering on lotions and creams to help her skin stop being so itchy and dry.

Shawn and I decided we'd had enough and started making other dr. appts.  We made an appt at the ENT and got her scheduled to get her tonsils out.  We also took her to the allergist to get her tested for all environmental allergens and retested for some foods.  That was a whole other battle.  We tried taking her off allergy meds for a week in order to do skin testing, but 3 days in, I called the dr. and said she can't make it.  Emily doesn't have normal allergies in the sense that her nose runs and her sinuses get stopped up, instead the allergens cause her eczema to flare.  She was covered in eczema and itching like crazy.  So we decided to do blood testing instead so she could go back on her allergy meds.  We got the results back and our poor girl is basically allergic to TX.  She's off the charts allergic to pretty much every outdoor allergen.  The allergy dr. told us to increase her morning allergy meds and gave her a prescription for night time meds.  He also gave us several new steroid creams for her skin and told us to do bleach baths and wet wraps each day.  The bleach baths help kill the bad bacteria and elminate the staph infections (which just looks like really bad eczema that won't go away). 

I started all the new meds, creams, bleach baths and wet wraps right away.  And all I can say, is what a HUGE difference it all made!  The bleach baths and wet wraps made the most significant difference.  She would sit in a bleach bath for 10 minutes and then we cover her in steroid cream, put her in wet jammies with dry jammies over them and she would sit for 2 hours.  Then we'd take the wet jammies off and cover her in moisturizer.  It was literally the only way to get moisture back into her skin.  We're still trying to decide if anything can be done in the future to help with her allergies.  For people with normal allergies, allergy shots are usually a good solution.  However, for a patient with eczema these shots can just make it a whole lot worse.  

We also made an appt with her dermatologist.   Her face was still flaring up and I wasn't quite sure what I could use on it (because regular moisturizer stung it since it was so dry).  Luckily, the dermatologist was able to give her a steroid cream that was safe enough for her face. 

I feel like after several very long, stressful months, we are finally seeing a light at the end of the tunnel.  She still has days where it flares up, but for the most part it looks night and day better!  I'm still giving her maintenance bleach baths, but not nearly as often as before. 

Before Em, I used to just think eczema was dry skin.  It's not even close to just dry skin. I had no idea how awful this condition could be!  As the allergy dr. said, until you have this yourself, you have no idea what it feels like.  Imagine sitting on an ant pile and getting bit all over.  You're body is so itchy that you itch, only itching just makes you feel more itchy.  And so the constant cycle starts.  Most people grow out of it, but considering Em has had this since she was an infant and it's not getting any better, her dr's seem to think this is something Em will have to deal with her whole life. 

Throughout the whole ordeal, I had been taking pics of her skin.  These are some of the worst days!


Waiting at the dr's office.  She is covered head to toe with red bumps.  She even had them all over her face.


Her face and neck had never been an issue before now!  She had constant red circles around her eyes.  Nothing helped them.
The eye infection that led to us having to cancel her birthday party.


November 24, 2015

Conversations With Evan

The kids were coloring at the table and this was our conversation:

Emily: "Mommy, how do you spell superstar?"
Me: "S U"
Evan: "No, you spell superstar. . EVAN."

November 16, 2015

Another Home Depot Workshop

A couple weekends ago, we took the kids to another one of the home depot kids workshops.  Both kids really enjoy going and finding out what they are going to build.  This time they built airplanes.  This was probably one of my favorite ones.  Each time we go, the kids are able to do more and more by themselves.

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Conversations With Evan

We went out to a sushi restaurant for dinner on Saturday night.  This was the first time we've ever taken the kids to one before.  We got them "kid food," but Shawn and I ordered sushi rolls.  This is the conversation when they came out:

Evan:  "What is that?"
Shawn: "That's called a caterpillar roll and that's a spider roll?"
Evan: While pointing to another roll. . ."And what bug is that?"

November 10, 2015

Emily's 6 Year Old Stats

Just a quick post to record Em's stats from her well visit:

Weight: 41.4 lbs (29%)
Height: 43 in. (13%)

The dr. also did a vision test and felt like she was straining a bit with her right eye.  So we will be making an appointment with the eye dr. soon to get her checked out.

November 5, 2015

October I Phone Pics

I bought this costume for Em 2 years ago and it was WAY too big.  I put it away and just found it recently, so she tried it on and it was a perfect fit.  Too bad she had already decided she wanted to be an angel this year.  Off to the dress up rack it went.











Silly boy takes his shoes off in the car EVERY single time we get in the car.  :(



Shawn's office

Notice her most recent picture she made him. . ."it's ok if you yell."  Haha

Stop

Drop

And roll

Em's Kindergarten class.  They had just learned all about the pumpkin life cycle.




Show and Tell. . he looks forward to this weekly!

This boy has been refusing naps on the weekends.  And this is what usually results about 5:00 pm on those days.


Silly girl on her first field trip in Kindergarten. . .the Pumpkin Patch.





First time on a big yellow school bus!



Feeding Willy and Jenny's fish while they were on vacation.


Her first daisy meeting at girl scouts.


Planting magical pumpkin seeds.


Fall Festival at Primrose.